I just noticed that when a girl comes to me with her boy problems, i tend to take the guys side. Well, secretly. I just go along with whatever they say but secretly, i understand why the guy does what he does. Girls, sometimes are so caught up in their own emotions that they don't even bother trying to understand. So i guess, don't come to me with your guy problems. I'll probably take the boy's side. Unless you have a very good side to the story. Try to consider his side, is all I'm going to advise. Look at the situation from an outsiders perspective, please.